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Sunshine International, established in 1984, is an online penpal dating service, not a so-called Mail Order Bride Service, which enables single men seeking single Asian girls, women in Asia - Philippines, Japan, China, Thailand, Vietnam, etc. for friendship or possible marriage. Due to the feminist endorsed International Marriage Broker Regulation Act, a law which intrudes upon the privacy and civil liberties of men seeking foreign women, we will be restructuring our services to comply with the law. In the meantime, SUNSHINE INTERNATIONAL WILL BE A FREE RESOURCE WEBSITE. It will help anyone who seeks information on Asia, Asian culture and tradition, travel to Asia, visa requirements of Asian countries, immigration laws and immigration attorneys, etc. Our site is very user friendly. If you need help in navigating, please e-mail us.

Please be sure to check out this unconstitutional law and voice your opinion through the link to the petition to revoke it. Also, let your senator and congressman know your feelings about this law which tramples upon your right as a man to marry whoever you want.

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"ONE OF THE NICEST THINGS ABOUT CORRESPONDING WITH A POTENTIAL MATE/FRIEND PRIOR TO MEETING, IS THAT PEOPLE WILL OPEN UP AND TELL EACH OTHER THINGS THAT THEY NEVER WOULD FACE TO FACE."

One of the nicest things about corresponding with a potential mate/friend prior to meeting, is that people will open up and tell each other things that they never would face to face. A person ends up truly knowing the other person and becoming friends before there is romance. The selection process is somewhat unconventional, but the results are still the same - boy meets girl - boy and girl fall in love. Any man who thinks that he doesn't have to win a lady's heart by this method of meeting someone, is sadly mistaken. These ladies will not marry just anybody in order to get a Visa to another country. But if a man has a good heart and is sincere (and she will know), he could be lucky enough to be blessed with the truest love of all.

"ONE LETTER IS WORTH FIVE DATES."

I honestly feel correspondence is the best way to find and develope a relationship/companionship. One letter is worth five dates. I love my wife, and we have gained much from each other in spirit and companionship.

"AFTER ALL THE CONVENTIONAL METHODS OF MEETING WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY FAILED, I FIGURED LET'S EXPAND MY OPTIONS."

I must admit that at first I was a bit skeptical about the idea of meeting the woman of my dreams by mail. Writing to penpals is nothing to me now. But the general attitude of the Americans about services like this is totally absurd. Most Americans, especially the women, misunderstand the whole thing. After all, this is the 90's! I consider myself an open-minded guy who is willing to try almost anything once. After all the conventional methods of meeting women in this country failed, I figured let's expand my options.

"I FAVOR CORRESPONDENCE AS A WAY TO MEET PEOPLE, BECAUSE IT LACKS ALL THE INSINCERITY AND PRETENTIOUSNESS OF TYPICAL SOCIAL SCENES"

Receiving some letters has dramatically enforced what I once considered the absurd notion that I could appeal to someone through correspondence. Also I begin to realize that the world is full of people looking for the same things I am - friendship or love. I've made very sincere friends, learned more about other countries, and have found out that we're not all so different. I favor correspondence as a way to meet people, because it lacks all the insincerity and pretentiousness of typical social scenes.

"I'M SOMEONE WHO WAS FORMERLY SKEPTICAL. NEEDLESS TO SAY, I AM NOT ANYMORE"

You might find this letter appropriate to publish as a means of encouraging some skeptical Americans. It pays off to write long and inciteful, as well as sincere letters. It pays off. I'm someone who was formerly skeptical. Needless to say, I am not anymore.

"WITHOUT A DOUBT, ALL OF THE PENPALS I WROTE SERIOUSLY HELD THOSE VALUES AND BELIEFS DEARLY..."

I had written Sunshine with the express intent of finding an Asian wife with the kind of deeply held values of love and companionship that I found missing in the USA. Without a doubt, all of the penpals I wrote seriously held those values and beliefs dearly and any choice I made would have been a very good one in finding the love and relationship I was seeking.

"FOR ALL THE GUYS OUT THERE WHO ARE REALLY AND TRULY SEEKING A WONDERFUL WOMAN TO SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH, I HAVE A COUPLE OF SUGGESSTIONS:

Take these women seriously and take the time to write them fully, openly, and with great affection. Your age does not matter, nor really do your looks. They are seeking great hearts, not sugar daddies. You'll be making a big mistake by seeking to impress them with Western values and houses, money, and cars. Not necessary here. These are genuine women seeking the kind of love that occurs through sustained hard work and honest efforts of friendship, devotion and loyalty. Take it from a guy who knows. I'm no different than you. Give this thing a long term commitment. In return, you'll receive a lifetime of opportunity, happiness, and love.

"A SURPRISINGLY LARGE PERCENTAGE OF THE LADIES I MET THROUGH YOUR SERVICE WERE VERY SINCERE AND BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY WAY... "

A surprisingly large percentage of the ladies I met through your service were very sincere and beautiful in every way, and they didn't have a lot of hang-ups. People who refer to these ladies as "mail order brides" don't know what they are talking about. Two people really can get to know each other well through writing. It just seems natural to communicate at a much deeper level that way. If you take time to get to know someone, you can tell whether she is really honest. It is also fascinating to learn about their culture and traditions.

"I DISCOVERED THAT, CONTRARY TO MY BELIEF, AND THE BELIEF OF EVERYONE WHO HAS ACCUSED ME OF ORDERING A MAIL-ORDER MAID (ISN'T IT ODD THAT THE ONLY PEOPLE ACCUSING ME OF THAT WERE AMERICAN WOMEN?), THE ASIAN WOMEN ARE MORE LIBERATED THAN ANY AMERICAN WOMAN I KNOW..."

I discovered that, contrary to my belief, and the belief of everyone who has accused me of ordering a mail-order maid (isn't it odd that the only people accusing me of that were American women?), the Asian women are more liberated than any American woman I know, with the possible exception of my sweet grey-haired mother. They are humble, well educated, hard working women who know exactly who they are. They do not need "space" nor self-help books to find themselves. They aren't lost! They are a perfect match for an American man like me who grew up believing that my job is to provide for my family and treat my partner as the very princess that she is.

"THE FACT THAT I AM A BLACK AMERICAN MAN DID NOT MATTER TO THEM. SEVERAL LADIES WROTE TO TELL ME THAT THE REASON WHY THEY DECIDED TO WRITE WAS BECAUSE OF MY RELIGIOUS AND MORAL QUALITIES"

The Fact that I am a Black American man did not matter to them. Several ladies wrote to tell me that the reason why they decided to write was because "my religious and moral qualities" made them very much attracted to me. As one Japanese lady quoted to me, "You can have all the money in the world, but that won't necessarily make you the happiest person". Now if that had been from an American woman, that saying would have been said the other way around.

"IN THE WORDS OF THE LATE JERRY GARCIA, WHAT A LONG, STRANGE TRIP IT'S BEEN!"

In the words of the late Jerry Garcia, what a long, strange trip it's been! Through the medium of your introductions, I have wound up in the jungles of Borneo, the Kampongs on the East Coast of Malaysia, obscure islands in the Andaman Sea, dormitories of universities, and mainly, in the homes and inner lives of a whole other universe of people. Ways of life I don't even bother to explain to the folks "back home". I'm not even sure where I call home any more. Matter of fact, I think Indera and I will wind up living in Singapore.

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